85: What to Consider When You’re Considering Divorce | The Loving Truth Podcast with Sharon Pope

If it’s the fear of what might happen on the OTHER side of divorce that’s keeping you stuck, this episode is for you! I’m joined by leading Family Law Attorney & Mediation expert, Susan Guthrie, to discuss exactly what to consider when you’re stuck in the decision to “stay or go.”

And I have to tell you: Susan shared advice that I wasn’t expecting!

➡️ What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

5:29 - People are often better off in their “beyond”
12:35 - Divorce will be one of the most stressful events in your life, BUT…
16:30 - How to avoid regret on the other side
19:32 - High emotions don’t make the best cocktail for rational thinking
26:20 - The best $$ you’ll ever spend during your divorce
30:21 - You don’t have to villainize your ex-partner - in fact, you shouldn’t
37:03 - Life after divorce is not actually the big black hole of a future you imagine
41:33 - You will become a different person as you heal
50:38 - What will really matter a few years from now…

➡️ Mentioned On The Show:

Susan Guthrie has been a leading Family Law Attorney & Mediator for more than 32 years with Forrest (Woody) Mosten. Together they founded The Mosten Guthrie Academy in 2021 to provide Gold Standard Family Law collaboration & mediation training for professionals. Her award winning podcast Divorce & Beyond is one of the “Top 1%” of podcasts worldwide - and one of the “Top 3 Divorce Podcasts” available now. Susan regularly presents at professional events and conferences around the world on topics related to family law, mediation, and legal tech. You can learn more about Susan on her website :: https://susaneguthrie.com/

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.
http://www.ClarityForMyMarriage.com

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Sharon is a certified Master Life Coach and a seven-time International Best-Selling Author on love and relationships. She has been published dozens of times, including in the New York Times, has 300+ blog posts and 300+ YouTube videos.