My Husband Doesn't Want Me Sexually Anymore | Paul Friedman

Are you experiencing that your husband is losing interest in sex and you think he doesn't want you sexually any more? Watch Paul shares some tips so you could discover why this is happening and for you to understand the situation.

I'm going to help you with this because there's a lot of misunderstandings in terms of what is really going on and I'm going to try and give you some insights into not just this particular problem that you're having but into your marriage because this is really where the problem lies.
It isn't that you're not sexy anymore even if you've gained weight or your figure has changed -- that doesn't matter to men. Truly, so I'm going to start with really what does matters, what makes a man feel sexually attracted to his wife because it's very interesting and the point is missed almost entirely.

I saw not too long ago a story that was on Facebook about a man who was marrying his fiancee even though she had cancer and was dying and my God, she the poor thing. She was completely emaciated and she was wearing her wedding gown and he was all smiles and you could see in his eye how much he loved her, how much he desired her. She was not sexy but to him, for sure
she was very sexy so that is much more of realistic reasoning for men who feel sexually
attracted to their wives is love -- it's love. Now let's go way back to why you got married in the first place because I'm going to show you what went wrong.

You got married to be happy and the ultimate way to achieve happiness and it isn't just the ultimate way honestly, it's the only way to achieve long-term happiness. Anything other than fleeting happiness, long-term deep happiness comes only from love. You could test this in
your own mind. You could write down examples of people who are happy and come up with some material reasons but if you dig deeper, you'll find that they're not. They always have to -- I mean people there are people who are very wealthy. They've got these fantastic lifestyles. They've got big yachts, jet planes, a staff to wait on them hand and foot and they're not happy.

How do I know?

Most of them are drinking alcohol or smoking pot. They're escaping somehow or they keep so busy that they have themselves deluded into thinking, "I am happy." That's not happiness. Happiness only comes from love. Now, it's true that human love is not the only happiness
creating an event. There are people who love God so much. There are even people who love art so much that they're completely absorbed but even that is somewhat fleeting. True love produces happiness. When you got married you are so happy. Remember at your wedding when you had that experience.

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