How to Date After Divorce: What are the Rules?

Forget the rulebook. Don’t play the games. There is only one thing you need to do to succeed at (and enjoy) dating after your divorce. So stop taking advice on how to date after divorce from your friends and family, and instead focus on the one thing that really matters. The truth is there are no rules for dating after divorce that can guarantee you results… except one.

WAIT. Are you even ready to be dating after divorce? Before you worry about how to date, do a quick run through this checklist to make sure you’re emotionally and mentally prepared for dating (so that it’s fun and not a job or, worse, painful and stressful).

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I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.

DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.

The one rule that works is simple: Be Yourself. Period. No games. No manuals. No playbooks. Honesty and authenticity. Not because it works (which it does, but that’s just a bonus). Do it because you want to have a better, happier, healthier relationship, one that doesn’t end up in divorce or heartache. When you date based on pretense you are setting yourself up to fail.

Your friends and family will give you endless lists of well intentioned rules for dating online, for asking women out, for having sex after divorce and for finding women to date… But if you’re dating for the first time in years, maybe in decades, you don’t need all those rules.

I get it. I do. If you’re newly single, asking women out might feel really uncomfortable. If you’re over your ex wife (or nearly!) and are ready to date again, the best way to get past that discomfort is to go out there and give it a try. But there’s a catch. If you get back out there to give it a try and you show up pretending, playing games or trying to follow the rules, you’re going to come off as insecure at best and inauthentic (which to many women screams manipulative or controlling) at worst. Either way, it’s not likely to help you find a partner, or even a one night stand, that actually makes you feel good.