"My Wife Doesn't Like Me To Touch Her Anymore" | Paul Friedman

Usually, what happens is that men are insensitive to the needs of their wives, and because men are so simple you might say, they want feedback. They ask questions and it doesn't work. You need to be sensitive to her on all levels not just physically, not just what turns her on or turns her off, not just the sensory stuff but you also have to be aware of and sensitive to her emotional state and her psychological state. Most men joke about how women want to just talk about things without realizing that this is very important for them. It sort of opens doors for them for their husbands to psychologically come in. One of the most important things for a man to understand and then to apply is that his wife has a need to express herself to a listener. I would wager that you're not, and being a listener is a deep thing. You have to listen not with the idea That you're hearing what's going on so you can fix things because they don't want you to fix anything. They just want you to hear them, to listen with understanding and sincerity, sincere understanding so that's a big thing. Another big thing is that your timing has to be good. If you want your wife to be interested in you, you have to gauge the timing. Women are very sensitive and they're very sensitive to all sorts of things and you have to be psychologically embracing her which sends a message of protection.


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