Dear Sybersue -Why Do I keep Attracting Men Who Cheat on Me?

Today's video and post were sent from Katie: Why do I keep Attracting Men Who Cheat on me?

Dear Sybersue,
I am a 25-year-old woman who is having a difficult time trying to find a sincere and loving boyfriend who wants to be with me in a committed relationship. I don't have a problem meeting men, but I do have a problem with them stepping out of our partnership and cheating with other women. I seem to be attracting the same type of guys that all say and do similar things. Their actions and words are great in the first month, and then shortly after that time frame, I find myself dealing with another cheating scenario once again.

It is starting to take a big toll on my self-esteem because I never seem to be enough for the men I begin a relationship with. They always end up sleeping with other women while we're together. The thing I don't understand is that the sexual intimacy in my relationships is always wonderful. Why do they need to be with someone else when we have a great connection in the bedroom? Every time it happens, it makes me feel worthless and not respected at all.

My friends tell me I have a certain non-committal type, and I am too good-natured and easygoing to a fault. They also think that I sleep with men too quickly! I don't like confrontation, but I do try to pay attention to the red flags in the early stages. Infidelity seems to be more of a problem after the first couple of months when they become comfortable in the relationship. Early on, they are attentive when we get together, but we're not seeing each other all the time at that point.

Any suggestions on what I can do moving forward to change up this repetition relationship scenario would be greatly appreciated. I am taking some time away from dating, as I hope to gain a better perspective, so I can change this problem feet having. Please let me know what you think, Sybersue. Thank you so much for your time, I really appreciate it, Katie.


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