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They accepted an inter-caste marriage in their own family — but when it came to mine, I was treated like an outsider."

This podcast episode explores one of the most emotionally intense and socially relevant issues in Indian families — inter-caste marriage and the silent battles that follow. It’s not just about love; it’s about what happens when love challenges the deep-rooted traditions of caste, control, and conditional acceptance.

💔 When your family accepts these things for others but rejects you — the wound is deeper.
💭 When your siblings are loved differently — and you’re held to different standards — the scars last longer.
🎤 This isn’t just one person’s story. It’s a reflection of thousands of unspoken struggles behind closed doors.

In this episode, we touch on:

🔸 The emotional impact of inter-caste marriage rejection
🔸 The difference between “acceptance” and pretending for society
🔸 Favoritism in families — when parents treat one child like gold and the other like a burden
🔸 Generational hypocrisy — elders saying “we used to do it like this” while ignoring today’s reality
🔸 Mental health struggles caused by family discrimination
🔸 Advice for children who feel unloved or unfairly treated
🔸 A message to parents — to love without conditions, without bias

🧠 We also ask some difficult questions:

Why does society still punish love?

Is religion or caste still a barrier in modern India?

What happens to the one who is always “adjusting”?

Does anything ever really change?

👉 Why you should listen/watch:
Because these conversations are real. Because someone out there feels alone. Because sometimes, just hearing “you’re not the only one” can help someone breathe a little easier.

💬 If you’ve experienced similar situations — comment below, your voice matters.
❤️ If this helped you, share it with someone who needs strength.
📌 Subscribe for more honest, heart-touching stories that challenge norms and open minds.


Time Stamps
00:00 Highlights
01:43 You had an inter-caste marriage — how did your family react at that time? Did they support you?"
05:15 They accepted an inter-caste marriage in their own family, but when it came to you, they treated you as if you were an outsider.
10:42 They made them leave too — but did they truly accept it?"
17:34 "The situation is still the same — will it ever change?"
18:29 You’re doing a podcast — people are watching. Won’t it have any negative impact?
26:29 Is all this discrimination happening just because you belong to a Sikh family?
28:02 That part was from their side — but what advice would you give to the parents and children in such a situation?
For example, if someone has two daughters and the parents clearly show favoritism —
they love one more and cover up her mistakes, while the other is treated unfairly — what can that other child do?"
34:09 You’ve faced a lot of struggles in your life — but how is your situation today? Does your mother-in-law live with you? Is she a good person?"
35:55 But this happens — discrimination and unequal treatment with everyone."
36:08 I was just about to ask — making differences has become so common. But what about the one who suffers because of it? What should they do?
What would you suggest to someone in that position?"
51:43 Elders often say — 'We used to do this, we used to handle that back then.'
But the truth is, back then those resources or comforts weren’t even available. Today, things are different — and we have to do things differently."
53:11 Before we end, tell us — did you receive any support from relatives or friends during all this?"
58:46 comment in section for Part 2
59:19 End

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