The 10 TOP Newbie Sub Mistakes in BDSM (and how to avoid them)

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In this video, we'll be going over the top mistakes new submissives make when entering the BDSM community. If you're new, or you have a partner who is, take heed of this list so you can avoid making the same errors so many of us have!

00:00 - introduction
01:24 - not understanding fantasy vs. reality
05:11 - believing you have to be just one thing
08:19 - putting on an act
11:38 - assuming experience means safety
15:50 - believing no limits makes you more desirable
18:20 - being afraid to safeword
21:30 - believing submission will fix your life
25:13 - putting too much pressure on Doms
28:34 - believing Doms are superhuman
31:37 - treating the collar as the goal
35:10 - final thoughts

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