feel like you're wasting your 20s? you're not alone. (26 mistakes I made in 26 years of hating life)

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hi gorgeous!! I need to apologize for dropping off of the face of the earth, and I promise ya I'll explain a bit more in my next video, but I think I have to do a bit more grieving, reflecting and learning until then, in order to be able to summarize it properly. I've definitely realised soooo many things over these past few months, which is great, but also exhausting HA

One thing I definitely realized however, is that I am very grateful for having (and still am) faced so many struggles, because I kinda feel like it taught me a level of empathy that runs so deep it hurts. And I just know how isolating loneliness and shame can feel, so I genuinely hope that hearing about some of the things I learned, makes it possible for you to see that you're not alone. You never were and you never will be. I love you and see you!!

0:00-1:21 what I learned from wasting my 20s
1:22-1:38 your behavior needs to reflect ur mindset
1:39-1:55 you're never 'too old'
1:56-2:12 therapy's ur friend
2:13-2:27 you will change
2:28-3:10 your struggles aren't unique (which is good)
3:11-3:18 simple decisions are the hardest
3:19-3:29 decide which relationship feels best
3:30-5:58 gain confidence through skills
5:59-6:28 trust you f-ing gut
6:29-6:45 learn how to sit w shame
6:46-7:10 actual resilience
7:11-7:42 take responsibility for ur feelings
7:43-7:55 put phone away
7:56-8:03 quitting isn't bad
8:04-8:13 go p*ss girl
8:14-8:34 setting boundaries is NOT wrong
8:35-8:47 can't change ppl
8:48-9:19 disagreeing is hot
9:20-9:34 tune in to ur desires
9:35-9:49 get to know urself by urself
9:50-10:04 pessimism ≠ smart
10:05-10:14 know which bag to carry
10:15-10:34 you are to be taken serious
10:35-10:44 keep an eye out for selener
10:45-10:54 don't trust absolute statements
10:55-11:32 this will also find its place.








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