My Wife Constantly Blames Me For Everything | Paul Friedman

Men and women have different flaws, different positive attributes but by learning what our own flaws are, what holds us back as a man in our case, and learning about our wives flaws and attributes gives us an amazing opportunity to gain what we want from marriage which is ever-increasing happiness, ever-increasing love where it just gets better and better every single day. And when these kinds of things come up basically, what it's saying is we haven't been taught about marriage. We have no idea what we're doing.

Way back in the day when I used to meet with individuals, every single man that I met with after they would get to know me for a while, and when I say for a while I mean in the first session because I didn't like to drag sessions out. I'm into like fix it now, fix it now. Make some progress. Every single man would say to me, "I just got to tell you, my wife is crazy." Every single one and I had no idea that I was the only one who thought that about my wife. From our point of view as men it's like, "How do they come up with this stuff? How are they thinking like that?" And so I came up with a little metaphor, I think that if you were to open up or look into a woman's head, you ever see a pot of boiling spaghetti where the spaghetti is all moving around and everything and it's just you can't tell which spaghetti is connected to what, and where the ends are -- that's what it looks like in a woman's head and you know what she'll even tell you that. Where man inside our minds things have to be categorized its lines, its circles, even the creative men. It's a designation by gender. It's a biologically driven thing.

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