Oppositional Defiance - Complex Trauma Prisons

Tim explores how Complex Trauma can develop defiance and oppositional attitudes.

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Why do some people argue about everything, resist any instruction from others, argue the opposite of whatever conclusion you make? Tim explores the origins of defiance and oppositional attitudes, and helps us understand when it is healthy and when it is unhealthy.

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Chapters
00:00 What is Oppositional Defiance?
02:15 Quiz
04:00 Origins - Defiance and Complex Trauma
12:00 Rebelling against over-control
15:15 Hypocrisy, selfish parents, injustice
17:00 Unhealthy dynamics
19:05 Fighting and tension
20:00 Harsh punishment, attachment, authenticity, feeling hurt, needs
23:25 What's happening inside the child?
29:50 Early Signs in Children
32:40 Characteristics of Oppositional Defiance
34:15 Characteristics - Passive Aggression
36:00 Long-Term Consequences
38:37 Dangers in Recovery
39:25 Healing
45:30 Healing - Surrender

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Tim Fletcher is not a doctor or licensed therapist. Tim’s videos are for informational purposes only to provide understanding, learning, and awareness about complex trauma. No information published here can replace professional evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment.

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