Why Your Ex Won't Commit (And What to Do About It)

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When your ex won't commit to you, there are a couple of scenarios that could be playing out.

First of all, you could simply be asking your ex to get back together with you way too soon. Your ex has their own emotional experience, and as long as those emotions aren't being addressed, your ex will have a very strong resistance to getting back together with you.

Remember, your ex needs to go on their own emotional journey in the process of getting back together with you. It's not about saying the right words or reasoning with them. They need to connect with you, emotionally, and gain trust that getting back together is a good idea before they will be ready to commit.

Second, if you are not asking your ex to commit too soon, then your ex may simply be holding on to a small amount of hesitation.

There is a part of them that is afraid that things really aren't going to be different, and even if the two of you are connecting well, they are worried that things really aren't going to be as good as they seem.

That is to say that your ex is still afraid that the connection and the change that they see isn't real.

This type of fear of committing is simply a matter of talking to your ex and helping them make the choice that they already want to make.

You may have to do things like be the "fork in the road" to help them commit and make a decision, but by this point they already secretly want to commit to you, so it shouldn't be a big deal.

Now, it's important to remember that your ex will only want to commit to you if the emotional connection is strong.

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