EMOTIONAL ISSUES OF FIRST SEX - Seema Anand StoryTelling

First-time sex is a very emotional event 😍😢🥺😩😬

Already an uncomfortable mixture of extreme excitement and extreme nervousness, and now intense performance pressure to added to the mix! Between the rom-coms or outright porn, we now have a subconscious belief of what sex should “look like” or “feel like”.

Its important to remember:

🖤Sex is never what it looks like on screen
🖤Sex is not just “penetration”, it is everything that comes before and after. It’s what you want it to be
🖤Sex becomes more pleasurable with practice.
🖤“How to have good sex” has to be learnt through experience.
🖤Everyone goes through awkwardness and difficulty the first few times.
🖤How you finish each time will determine how eagerly your partner comes back to your bed next time, so no matter what doesn’t “happen” during sex focus on creating a happy emotional bond at the end.