These Tips Changed Our Marriage ⎮ How We Argue BETTER After A Horrible First Year

Navigating the first year of marriage can be a mix of blissful moments and unexpected challenges. In this video we open up about the rocky start to our marriage and the valuable lessons we've learned. Join as we share the communication strategies and insights that transformed the way we argue, turning into a tool for growth and strengthening our bond.

💬 Marriage Real Talk:
Rough Beginnings: We get real about the struggles we faced in our first year and how it nearly broke us.
Turning Point: Discover the pivotal moments that prompted us to seek change and work on our relationship.

💡 Conflict Resolution Tips:
Active Listening: Learn how we developed the skill of truly listening to each other without immediately reacting.
Fair Fighting Rules: We'll share the 'rules of engagement' that keep our arguments constructive rather than destructive.
Emotional Intelligence: Find out how recognizing and expressing our emotions healthily has been a game-changer.

🛠️ Tools for Better Arguments:
Communication Techniques: We discuss the techniques that help us convey our thoughts and feelings clearly and calmly.
Time-Outs: See how taking a break during heated moments allows us to cool down and come back with a clearer perspective.
Seeking Help: We talk about the impact of seeking guidance from marriage counselors and how it provided us with effective tools for better arguments.

❤️ Strengthening Our Bond:
Empathy and Understanding: Discover how empathy has allowed us to connect on a deeper level during disagreements.
Rebuilding Trust: We share the steps we've taken to rebuild trust and ensure our arguments are resolved with respect and love.

💌 Chapters
0:00 getting defensive
2:00 trying to change my husband
3:15 validating our feelings
4:00 the moment I realized what he needed
4:45 what is the root need
6:10 tip one- look internally
8:20 our fight today
10:55 tip two- verbally process with a friend
12:15 our marriage dynamic
13:40 keeping Jesus at the center
14:45 connecting during an argument

📚 Our Love Story
Part 1 ⎮    • Our Love Story ⎮Met On A Cruise Ship  
Part 2 ⎮    • When God Writes Your Love Story *insane*  
Engaged After 2 Months ⎮    • ENGAGED AFTER 2 MONTHS!  
The Day I Met My Husband ⎮    • The Day I Met My Husband ( I VLOGGED ...  

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Y O U T U B E
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Kyle ⇢    / @kylewolfgang  


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C O N T A C T
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