You want to believe that a Hijackal--a toxic, difficult, perhaps narcissistic person--loves you. You SO want to believe it. But it's time for a reality check.
Narcissistic folks don't have much love to give and here are 16 ways to recognize that they aren't giving it to you. An eye-opener!
People who love you listen to you. They want to listen to you. And, you want to listen to them. You're interested in each other. Not so with a #Hijackal. The Hijackal is interested in themselves and want you to be interested in them, too. Sure, in the beginning, it's different. That's how they hook you as I spoke about in the last episode, How Hijackals Hook You Into Toxic Relationships.
• How Hijackals Hook You - How to Unhoo...
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
The transactional nature of toxic relationships
16 ways that love relationships differ from toxic relationships
Why you must not continue to believe that you are loved and make excuses for poor behavior
My definition of emotional abuse, and why you are best to keep it in mind
Clear ways to recognize real love to compare and contrast with what a Hijackal offers you
03:05 Hijackals rush into relationships, prioritize things their way.
06:31 Deceptive person uses criticism to control others.
09:46 Love is about mutual understanding and respect.
14:16 Assess love through actions, not just words.
17:08 Enabling poor behavior in relationships lacks love.
20:22 Trust and love cannot be quantified numerically.
25:09 Hijackals seek control, not love or support.
27:08 Hijackals don't lead to love; lack intimacy.
34:39 Emotional and exhausting relationships are draining.
36:26 Romantic partners may emulate hijackal parents. Recognize.
41:14 Adult Hijackals believe they're perfect, but struggle inside.
Here are some other episodes you may find helpful right now:
Healthy Responses to Gaslighting:
• Healthy Responses to Gaslighting Craz...
Actions Speak Louder than Words: How Narcissists Manipulate Your Emotions to Get What They Want (with guest Kim Saeed)
• Actions Speak Louder Than Words. How ...
Recognize Narcissistic Contempt: Nasty ways Hijackals Demean, Dismiss and Discount You
• Recognize Narcissistic Contempt: Nast...
* Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.
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I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane.
No worries about where in the world you live. I work through private, secure video conferencing. So, we can certainly work together to figure a few things out.
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You can reclaim your personal power. Keep watching my videos on YouTube to find strategies for changing your relationship dynamics..
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