How To Make Sure Your Post Divorce Relationships Thrive

Relationships can be better after divorce. The statistics are gloomy, but with the right approach you can beat the odds and have happier, healthier relationships after divorce.

00:00 Relationships really can be BETTER after divorce
01:50 Inside my coaching program
02:18 What impacts your ability to have better relationships?
03:24 Self-governance is the key to all relationship skills
04:55 Unhealthy self governance: Tyranny & Anarchy
08:08 Naturally accessing good relationship skills
09:30 Being a leader, not a dictator
11:18 How women self-govern
12:28 It actually works!
14:55 You can do this - it will work for you too.

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I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.

DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.

I could talk about a lot of things, like emotional intelligence, communication skills, vulnerable conversations and diffusing conflict and understanding the impacts of attachment wounds and childhood trauma…

Those things are all useful to understand and cultivate.

There is one, fundamental thing that will determine the quality of your relationships after divorce, and that is how successful you are at self-governance.

Does that sound odd? Maybe you’re expecting me to talk about relationship skills, communication or understanding women…

Self-governance is the key to all of that.

Self-governance is about how you relate to the most important person in your life - yourself.

Healthy self governance is calm and grounded.

When you have a healthy relationship with yourself it impacts the way you relate to others. For example:

If your partner gets angry or hurt, you have the humility to honestly assess your actions or words and take responsibility for your mistakes, WITHOUT taking on blame or guilt for things that are not your fault.

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