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Today, let’s dive into an important topic. I want to talk about what happens when a narcissist tries to Hoover you, and you decide to reject their attempts. Specifically, we will explore the implications for the new supply in this scenario.
When we discuss the relationship between a narcissist and their new supply, it’s essential to understand the dynamics at play. Initially, the new supply often experiences what is known as "love bombing." This is a phase where the narcissist showers them with affection, attention, and admiration. For a time, it may seem like the new supply is in a great position, enjoying the intense focus and idealization from the narcissist. However, this situation can quickly change.
Narcissists have a very low tolerance for boredom. This means that after a period of intense attention, they often feel the need to seek out new sources of stimulation. I refer to this as their "boredom cycle." During this cycle, the narcissist will start to lose interest in their current supply and may feel compelled to reach out to you, the previous partner, in an attempt to Hoover you back into their life.
So, what happens to the new supply when you reject the Hoover? Initially, the new supply is basking in the glow of the narcissist's love bombing. The narcissist is expending a lot of energy during this phase, trying to keep the new supply engaged and captivated. However, as time passes—typically after a few weeks or a couple of months—the intensity of the love bombing begins to fade.
Once the love bombing subsides, the new supply may start to feel neglected. The narcissist, having given so much energy initially, now finds themselves bored and seeking something new to fuel their need for excitement and validation. This is where the dynamics shift. The narcissist may start to withdraw from the new supply, causing confusion and insecurity.
When you reject the Hoover, the narcissist may direct their frustration and need for validation toward the new supply. They may become more critical or distant, leaving the new supply feeling anxious and uncertain about their worth. The new supply, who was once the center of the narcissist's attention, might now find themselves in a precarious position, constantly trying to regain the affection they initially received.
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